It’s been particularly stormy outside in the last couple of days, which makes me want to retreat indoors. This may explain why I’m drawn right now to imagery of candlelight. The sense of intimacy that’s created through candlelight is something that I find comforting. Because the light source is so intimate and localised, it creates this insular atmosphere; it creates an interior world where you feel cocooned. Candlelight seems to highlight the dark, as much as it may provide light within it. I love this, because it creates a feeling of closing-in on yourself.
This made me think of the poem ‘Candles’ by Sylvia Plath. Although I don’t approach it as a ‘comforting’ poem, I do love its imagery, which speaks of the imagery I’m drawn to right now:
By Sylvia Plath
They are the last romantics, these candles:
Upside down hearts of light tipping wax fingers,
And the fingers, taken in by their own haloes,
Grown milky, almost clear, like the bodies of saints.
It is touching, the way they’ll ignore
A whole family of prominent objects
Simply to plumb the deeps of an eye
In its hollow of shadows, its fringe of reeds,
And the owner past thirty, no beauty at all.
Daylight would be more judicious,
Giving everybody a fair hearing.
They should have gone out with the balloon flights and the stereopticon.
This is no time for the private point of view.
When I light them, my nostrils prickle.
Their pale, tentative yellows
Drag up false, Edwardian sentiments,
And I remember my maternal grandmother from Vienna.
As a schoolgirl she gave roses to Franz Josef.
The burghers sweated and wept. The children wore white.
And my grandfather moped in the Tyrol,
Imagining himself a headwaiter in America,
Floating in a high-church hush
Among ice buckets, frosty napkins.
These little globes of light are sweet as pears.
Kindly with invalids and mawkish women,
They mollify the bald moon.
Nun-souled, they burn heavenward and never marry.
The eyes of the child I nurse are scarcely open.
In twenty years I shall be retrograde
As these draughty ephemerids.
I watch their spilt tears cloud and dull to pearls.
How shall I tell anything at all
To this infant still in a birth-drowse?
Tonight, like a shawl, the mild light enfolds her,
The shadows stoop over like guests at a christening.
Speaking of closing-in on myself, I’ve deleted my pinterest and tumblr accounts, because I hardly use them anymore. And not to be overly dramatic, but I feel anxious every time I visit pinterest and tumblr now – all those images and content to consume at once kind of gives me a headache. I think I need to be more selective about how I consume things online. So this blog, twitter and facebook are enough for now. Time to stop feeling pointlessly anxious about things I can control. I think I felt like I ‘had’ to maintain all these accounts in case I’d be missing out on something if I don’t have them, and it feels great to delete and say, ‘no’. Jane articulates this much better than me.
I’ve also been helping my mum work on her professional Facebook page, and I would really appreciate it if people liked it and spread the word about it. I think she’s pretty wonderful, my mum. And just a quick thank you to a few bloggy friends who have offered much kindness and support lately, in ways that are not obvious on my blog. I often feel I don’t say thank you enough, so this is my small gesture: Thank you Erica, Danielle, Acacia and Nancy. You know what for.
Image credit: Woman Reading by Candlelight (1908) by Peter Ilsted.